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Oklahoma Power Exchange  presents  Surrender & Mastery with The House of Nia

 Enjoy an EXCLUSIVE weekend of focused education and kinky fun with The House of Nia! Through discussion, classes, demonstrations and fellowship, Master Seykou Nia and His majordomo slave Sassy Nikki Nia, along with Master Ricardo and slave Ava, will share their perspective, philosophies and guidance on BDSM, M/s, Play, Service, Surrender & Mastery.



Friday, February 11, 2022 - 9:00 pm – 12:00 am-    Cigar Social Meet & Greet

     *Please note the Cigar Social is “free and open to anyone” whether registered for the entire weekend or not. We want for everyone to have the opportunity to meet The House of Nia and unwind from the week by pairing two of their favorite things, Leather & Leaf, along with a cocktail and some open play.  Registration for the Cigar Social Only is also required for attendance and vetting purposes.*

Saturday, February 12


 11:00-11:30 am - Meet The House of Nia 

11:30-11:45 am  - Break

11:45-1:00 pm  - Relationship Dynamics

    Panelists: Master Seykou, majordomo slave Sassy Nikki Nia, Master Ricardo, slave Ava

1:00-1:30 pm - Break

1:30-3:00 pm Break Out Sessions

  • Mastery and Domination - Master Seykou

  • Service and Surrender - majordomo slave Sassy Nikki Nia

3:00-3:30 pm - Break

4:00-5:00 pm - Cigar Service/Play – The House of Nia

Saturday 9:00 pm – Sunday 2:00 am - S & M Fetish Ball  (formal attire)

     *Come dressed in your finest. What does that mean? Our guests request that you be authentically you. Leather, Lace, Silk and Satin are all acceptable. Show off your unique style, culture, and/or heritage at our Fetish Ball. Please note: nudity must be covered until you enter the space.

Sunday, February 13 -  VIP Brunch (Invitation Only)


The House of Nia 

Our Mission:

    To be the mental, emotional, spiritual home and/or resource to those who seek to embody their Nia (purpose) as a life's work both within and outside the BDSM/Leather culture.  

   To birth an expansive, pervasive, perverse, multi-generational Leather House composed of lifetime family, mentors, mentees, and associates.

   To ensure our Leather path is honored historically, lived authentically, and permeates perpetually in the BDSM landscape.

   To house a physical communal living space where members and invitees may fellowship, live and love freely in accordance with their most authentic expressions.

   The House of Nia is a 24/7 M/s protocol-based Leather household headed by Master Seykou Nia and is currently outside of Denver, Colorado. The House of Nia is served and supported by two Leather slaves, alpha & majordomo slave Sassy Nikki Nia and slave little onyx. 

Master Seykou Nia

   Master Seykou Nia is a covered Leatherman, active lifestyle Dominant and Sadistic service Top. The House of Nia is a co-founding member of LHOCC (Leather Houses of Color Coalition), ½ of the former Colorado Master/slave pair for 2016, Pantheon of Leather Award nominee, BDSM Educator, lover of the leaf (cigars anyone?) and overall Kinky fucker. 

   His journey began in 2014 and soon found Himself on the Leather path and has never looked back. His formal training includes intensive study under the Masters of the MTTA Academy, formal mentorship with the House of Blue, and observation of the conduct of many other leaders of the Leather and general BDSM Community.

   Master Seykou’s core philosophy for Himself and the House of Nia is "find your center and operate from there on all you do."  This, in part, led to His coining of the phrase “Shoulder to shoulder, Hide to hide” in 2016, as He sees Leather and the fellowship that can come from living it, as his center. 

   His embodiment of the what some describe as “traditional leather values” of honor, authenticity, integrity, transparency, respect, and trust (to which he adds - inclusion and tolerance) has helped Master Seykou gain respect and recognition throughout the community, including receiving His Masters’ cover from his Denver community in 2016.

   Master Seykou has traveled extensively throughout the country with his slaves to participate in both Leather and non-Leather lifestyle events in which they teach, volunteer, support and lead in order to facilitate growth in the BDSM and M/s journeys of others.  

majordomo slave Sassy Nikki Nia

   majordomo slave Sassy Nikki Nia, aka “major”, is the owned and collared slave of Master Seykou Nia and majordomo for the House of Nia. She is a slave, Leatherwoman, bottom, service Top, coach, mentor, and proud slut slave.  

   After she began her exploration into BDSM over 15 years ago, she became co-Leader of the submissives of the Ozarks based in Springfield, Missouri shortly after entering the real-time BDSM community in 2016, soon after becoming a member of the HardPink Sisterhood, an international women’s support group and sat on its Board from 2017-2019. 

   slave Sassy Nikki has immersed herself in the Leather community by traveling to conferences and events throughout the US as an attendee, volunteer and willing servant to this tribe and those she has come to know as Family.  Sassy Nikki has an affinity for encouraging both un-partnered and partnered submissives and slaves to see the value, opportunity and limitlessness of the exploration, experiences and progression available to them in this Lifestyle through her active participation in local, regional and national communities, online and offline education/discussion groups.

   As a result of her extensive community involvement, majordomo slave sassy nikki nia is the proud recipient of the 2019 Pantheon of Leather Award for the Midwest Region. 

Currently, slave Nikki Nia  is the creator and curator of "Surrender & Mastery" by The House of Nia - offering guidance and support for those in or who seek the path of BDSM and Authority-based relationships or dynamics. 

Oklahoma Power Exchange (OPE)

OPE is a private upscale dungeon providing a safe, friendly space for education, community connection and a variety of BDSM social activities since June 2013. OPE provides the main dungeon with four downstairs private playrooms, voyeur social area, snack room; upstairs harem room, primal playroom, social area, glory hole; and private outdoor patio. There are numerous play stations, hardpoints, suspended cage, Sybian, and more. Sex & Edge Play Positive. LGBTQ+ Inclusive & Embracing.

All weekend activities will be held at OPE and the address will be provided with registration confirmation.

Hotel Information

Hotels in the Bricktown/Downtown area followed by the airport area are the closest and recommended hotels to the OPE dungeon.  Hotels range from 4-5 miles and travel times are around 7-10 minutes. 

NOTE: All attendees must be 18 years of age or older.